Fri 18 May 2007
We’ve all had the question in our mind at one time or another…or constantly. Why don’t they get healed when I pray for them?
Let’s look at the story in Mark 9:14-39 where Jesus and the 3 disciple’s were coming down from the mount of transfiguration incident. Immediately they’re approached with the crisis of the demonized boy and his father. What was the first thing the father said? “I have a son who is possessed by a devil and I brought him to your disciples to cast the devil out, but they could not do it.” Let’s stop there for a minute.
This sounds a lot like our church these days…at least to what I have been exposed too. The world has a problem and they are looking to us for the solution. Cancer is eating the world alive and we’re supposed to have the answer to that disease. But all to often cancer is brought to our feet and we can’t cast it out of the person…they don’t get healed when we pray. As a church, we need to recognize failure when it’s standing right in front of our faces. All to often we casually gloss over a prayer for healing that doesn’t produce a result. We often say “Well, I did my part. Now it’s time for God to do His.” Is that really the answer? I have many people who have told me “Results are God’s department. We just pray.” At first I really hated that statement because I thought it excused us from all responsibility. But then I came to grips with it on a few different levels, and that’s a fine statement to make…and it’s true, but only to a point. But let’s continue the story to see a side that maybe we have negelected. Maybe we’re to quick to say “The results are God’s department.”
The first thing Jesus said in response the father’s statement was “You faithless people, how long must I be with you until you believe?” He seemed a bit frustrated…but at who? I personally believe He was frustrated at His disciples. They just got back from a healing and preaching campaign through all the villages after Jesus gave them authority over all sickness and demons, but now they can’t produce the result needed.
The remainder of the story is that Jesus cast out the demon, the boy gets healed and the disciples ask the obvious question, “Why couldn’t we do it?”
Before we get to that point, let’s make some conclusions:
Do we see here that it was clearly Jesus’ will that the boy be healed? That it was a lack on the disciple’s part that didn’t produce the manifestation of God’s love? How many times do we pray for someone, without result, and just pass on like it wasn’t God’s will or something? Have we ever entertained the thought that it’s not God’s fault, but ours??
What if, everyone you prayed for with no result approached the Lord and said, “Paul couldn’t heal me, can you please help me?” Would the Lord say “No, if Paul can’t do it, then I probably can’t.” No, He’ll heal the person. So where does the blame lie? Is it really God’s fault or divine will that the lady across the street with cancer remains in death’s grips, even though Jesus gave us all authority over it?
What if we viewed our unsuccessful prayers for healing/deliverance as our own fault, not God’s? And what does that tell us about the position of the church? Bump that situation with the demonized boy a few years in the future after the ascension and the father wouldn’t have been able to take the boy to Jesus Himself…he would’ve been stuck with “Your disciples couldn’t heal my son.” And that’s where the story would’ve ended. Sadly, in my life, that’s where it has ended MOST of the time.
I haven’t let go of this, even though almost everybody I’ve talked to about it has tried to talk me out of it. If someone doesn’t get healed when I pray for them, it’s my fault…not God’s. And for me, this story proves that. It clearly shows that it’s Jesus’ will to heal the oppressed, and it clearly shows that the disciples had a failure. Can we please admit that our unanswered prayers of authority is failure instead of brushing it off as if nothing ever happened?
We’re never going to grow unless we take responsibility here. If we don’t think we have failures in this walk, then we’ll never have a desire to improve and then cancer, sickness and disease continues to trump the believer’s lack of belief.
At the end of the story where Jesus answers the question (more thoroughly in Matt 17:20) as to why the boy wasn’t healed, He said, “It was your unbelief.” Then He gives an illustration of the mustard seed faith. So many people refer to that illustration but completely ignore the context. It’s not God’s fault that the people aren’t healed, it’s not the devil’s power, it’s solely based on our unbelief, our lack of faith. It’s not the person’s fault they aren’t healed (imagine that!!!), it’s our fault. Our faith and love should cover other people’s failures, our God really is that big.
So, reality check! What does all this mean? Jesus said, “This kind comes out by prayer and fasting.” What kind? Is it this kind of demon, or this kind of unbelief? Doesn’t matter!! Either way, Jesus gives us the key. It’s by prayer and fasting. If we’re out playing around with and in the world and being so caught up in it’s trance, then no wonder we aren’t producing results for the Kingdom! Remember what Jesus said to Martha in Luke 10:42? He said, “There is only one thing in this world to be concerned about, and Mary has discovered it.” Well, if Jesus Himself said there is only one thing to be concerned about, then it really must be an important thing! What is it? Look up at Luke 10:39 “Mary, sat at the Lord’s feet, listening to what he taught.” There it is. Sitting at the feet of Jesus, listening to what He teaches.
Our ability to sit in the presence of Jesus is the most important thing in this world. It is the ONLY thing to be concerned about. We need to be able to hear the voice of Jesus so that we can hear His teachings…scriptures are a part of it, but there is more to hearing His voice than just reading a book. He wants to speak to us in our current situation with real, fresh, language. We need to be there, at His feet paying attention to Him when He talks to us, not distracted and concerned with the things of this world.
When we do this, when the Lord walks us down the road of our unbelief and onto His road of faith (which He wants to do personally for each one of us) we will then have the faith to produce Kingdom results. The buck stops here!
For an article I wrote on hearing the voice of God…Click Here.


May 18th, 2007 at 8:44 am
You knew I would … but I’ll say it anyway … I’m in 100% agreement with you - and, like you, that doesn’t mean I have a 100% track record in healing either.
One of the problems we have too often in churches is a feeling of guilt. He took all our guilt at the Cross. Period. He didn’t take our prior guilt just so He could heap new guilt on us afterward! He doesn’t want us feeling guilty. He wants us free - free to embrace our new responsibility with vigour and life.
So when He says to us “you of little faith” it’s not to make us guilty! It’s to make us hungry - hungry to see people healed, to pray, fast, sit in His presence, scour the Bible, ask Holy Spirit to take us places and show us things - not just to know some truths but to experience The Truth. And it’s such a joy - how I love to see Him heal people just as much as He loves my belief that He wants to do it.
My heart just screems out for more of His followers to believe that they can follow Him, and to get stuck into the process instead of expecting the fullness to fall out of the sky in a single portion. At the same time, I feel a renewed passion to embrace the next steps in my own process right now.
Keep on doing His most excellent work Paul. I really appreciate your friendship and sharpening of one another.
May 19th, 2007 at 6:03 pm
It’s too easy to blame God isn’t it! I think until we can say that we are truly prayed up a fasted up, we can’t blame the lack of a miracle on God’s providence.
As always… thanks for the shot in the arm, Paul!
May 19th, 2007 at 6:43 pm
Mark, good point about the guilt. If we look at the story the disciples had the right attitude, they didn’t run in shame or embarassment, they went to Jesus at the earliest convenience and asked “Why couldn’t we do it?”
Our failures shouldn’t smother us, but drive us deeper into the Kingdom past the works of the enemy trying to hold us back. Thanks for making mention of that Mark.
Ben, it’s funny because sometimes I catch myself blaming God not for the lack of miracle but because He sees my heart and why can’t He supernaturally take me from point A to point B in a blink. Then I find myself trying to rid myself of the process. But it’s in the process that we really develop character and integrity.
Thanks for stopping by guys!
May 21st, 2007 at 8:40 am
I feel that there’s an important tension to hold with this which is in Mark 6 where Jesus is only able to heal a few because of the unbelief in that place.
All too often I’ve heard people blame others for their lack of faith, and I’m in total agreement with your article that that can often be wrong and the “problem” is US. In fact I was ministering to a lady on the streets the other week and Holy Spirit showed me how she’d been crushed many years ago when somebody decided she needed healing and then blamed her for the lack of results - she was set free as I shared God’s knowledge of the incident and His aching heart with her.
But we must still remember that there are times where we don’t have a faith agreement with another then we become limited, just as Jesus did in His home town, and we can do very little without agreement.
We must know the Father’s heart (He wants to heal) and we must know what is possible in the moment (we see what the Father is doing in heaven as Jesus did) and we must know whether or not we have (or can encourage) earthly agreement.
May 21st, 2007 at 8:24 pm
Good thoughts here. Thank you very much. I’ve been asked to share some words about someone at a memorial service this weekend and would like your feedback. I anointed her with oil and prayed for her healing and asked our congregation to join in a couple times. Yet, months later, the cancer overcame her body.
What faith-building words can I share with her family and friends, when my prayers failed to bring about her physical healing on this earth?
I know God’s healing power and have witnessed His answer–divine healing–when I’ve prayed for others. I am also keenly aware of my sinfulness and brokenness and often ask Jesus to help my unbelief, as He did for the father in Mark 9: 24, “Immediately the boy’s father exclaimed, “I do believe; help me overcome my unbelief!”
Any thoughts you can share are greatly appreciated.
May 21st, 2007 at 10:52 pm
I’ve had a similar experience when a friend wanted me to travel to Houston Texas to pray for his friend that had cancer, he was only 30. He gave me $500 to travel there and pray for him.
I got there and the tumors were visible on his body. I mustered all the faith I could find and anointed him with oil and did all the right things…turns out, 2 weeks later he died. I spoke to him before I prayed for him and he wasn’t born again, so I had the great honor of leading him to the Lord.
It’s hard to balance out everything. I’m thankful to have been able to lead him to salvation weeks before it was too late. But I’m also aware that it wasn’t necessary that he had to die. I believe he was taken out of the game early.
The reality of this is that we are in a literal war. Satan wants to kill, steal and destroy, and God wants to give life. Like every war, battles are won and lost, ultimately God wins as we know. I don’t think it’s God’s will and purpose for his children to be overcome with cancer and other diseases.
It was Jesus’ duty and purpose, as well as it is ours, to go about destroying the works of the devil. Cancer is a work of the devil. Unforntunately, you and I have lost out to that battle. All we can do is pull up our boot straps and be prepared for the next one.
Those are hopefully encouraging words for you. As for the family, I often inform people about the spiritual battle that is taking place that most people aren’t aware of. Often times people will by default blame God and say it was his timing and such. But when people have an idea that maybe it was an attack on the family, it helps take away feelings of contention with God.
You have to be lead by His Spirit. Find some time and just sit in the presence of God and trust that He is there and that He has the right words for you to give. Listen to His voice in your Spirit and share what He tells you. There is no “one-size-fits-all” comment you can say that will make it ok. God has specific words of hope, encouragement, and exhortation for all the people affected. All you have to do is deliver those words to the people. Possibly easier said than done….it’s all about that sitting at the feet of Jesus thing.
For personal study look at Luke 13:1-3 for how Jesus answered some difficult questions about events of tragedy.
The bottom line is that we need to be in the presence of the Lord for these things to be revealed to us, and it has to be personally. He can answer it, and wants to answer it, more than you may know. Jesus often answered questions that the disciples didn’t even have the courage to ask yet. He perceived their questions and still answered them. So take heart that He is with you and that He knows what your situation is and has the precise words for you and for the family.
Be blessed.
May 22nd, 2007 at 2:10 am
Thank you for encouraging me, Paul. I don’t know you or where you are, but it’s a blessing that the Lord can cross two paths of brothers in Christ even in cyberspace.
You’re words ring true. I need to get with Jesus and listen as he gives me His words for her family.
Shalom
May 22nd, 2007 at 4:05 pm
Yeah Drew, it’s awesome how the Lord uses this internet to connect people that would otherwise never know each other. A large majority of why I’m doing what I’m doing is because of the people I’ve met online.
I trust everything will go fine this weekend. Feel free to let me know how it went.
Paul
August 4th, 2007 at 5:45 am
Great site! A few other reasons why healing might not come:unconfessed sin (in the life of a believer) —————–NOTE: The following scriptures are meant as encouragement to further study, NOT to condemn those who are sick or have gone on to the presence of the Lord without receiving healing in their bodies. I have been personally touched by this subject as my dear mother passed away January of this year (2007)and was truly one of the most Christ-like women I have known. She was healed twice of cancer before,but the third time she fought for eight years and did not receive healing.I want to note also that I am in full agreement with the previous commments. ——– James 5:14-20 14 Is any sick among you? let him call for the elders of the church; and let them pray over him, anointing him with oil in the name of the Lord:
15And the prayer of faith shall save the sick, and the Lord shall raise him up; and if he have committed sins, they shall be forgiven him.
16Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.
17Elias was a man subject to like passions as we are, and he prayed earnestly that it might not rain: and it rained not on the earth by the space of three years and six months.
18And he prayed again, and the heaven gave rain, and the earth brought forth her fruit.
19Brethren, if any of you do err from the truth, and one convert him;
20Let him know, that he which converteth the sinner from the error of his way shall save a soul from death, and shall hide a multitude of sins.————————————————————
I believe it is often unknown sin in the believers life,note the context of James 5:19-20 “…if any of YOU do err from the truth,and one convert him;Let him know that he which converteth the sinner from the error of his way shall save a soul FROM DEATH… 1st John 5:15-17 15 And if we know that he hear us, whatsoever we ask, we know that we have the petitions that we desired of him.
16If any man see his brother sin a sin which is not unto death, he shall ask, and he shall give him life for them that sin not unto death. There is a sin unto death: I do not say that he shall pray for it.
17All unrighteousness is sin: and there is a sin not unto death.
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Husbands doing (not doing?)their jobs: 1st Peter 3:7 Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.
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Not honoring the Lord’s table: 1st Corinthians 11:20-34 20When ye come together therefore into one place, this is not to eat the Lord’s supper.
21For in eating every one taketh before other his own supper: and one is hungry, and another is drunken.
22What? have ye not houses to eat and to drink in? or despise ye the church of God, and shame them that have not? what shall I say to you? shall I praise you in this? I praise you not.
23For I have received of the Lord that which also I delivered unto you, that the Lord Jesus the same night in which he was betrayed took bread:
24And when he had given thanks, he brake it, and said, Take, eat: this is my body, which is broken for you: this do in remembrance of me.
25After the same manner also he took the cup, when he had supped, saying, this cup is the new testament in my blood: this do ye, as oft as ye drink it, in remembrance of me.
26For as often as ye eat this bread, and drink this cup, ye do shew the Lord’s death till he come.
27Wherefore whosoever shall eat this bread, and drink this cup of the Lord, unworthily, shall be guilty of the body and blood of the Lord.
28But let a man examine himself, and so let him eat of that bread, and drink of that cup.
29For he that eateth and drinketh unworthily, eateth and drinketh damnation to himself, not discerning the Lord’s body.
30FOR THIS CAUSE MANY ARE WEAK AND SICKLY AMONG YOU, AND MANY SLEEP.
31FOR IF WE WOULD JUDGE OURSELVES, WE SHOULD NOT BE JUDGED.
( 1st Corinthians 4:20-5:13 20For the kingdom of God is not in word, but in power.
21What will ye? shall I come unto you with a rod, or in love, and in the spirit of meekness?
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1It is reported commonly that there is fornication among you, and such fornication as is not so much as named among the Gentiles, that one should have his father’s wife.
2And ye are puffed up, and have not rather mourned, that he that hath done this deed might be taken away from among you.
3For I verily, as absent in body, but present in spirit, have judged already, as though I were present, concerning him that hath so done this deed,
4In the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, when ye are gathered together, and my spirit, with the power of our Lord Jesus Christ,
5To deliver SUCH AN ONE UNTO SATAN FOR THE DESTRUCTION OF THE FLESH, that the spirit may be saved in the day of the Lord Jesus.
6Your glorying is not good. Know ye not that a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump?
7Purge out therefore the old leaven, that ye may be a new lump, as ye are unleavened. For even Christ our passover is sacrificed for us:
8Therefore let us keep the feast, not with old leaven, neither with the leaven of malice and wickedness; but with the unleavened bread of sincerity and truth.
9I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators:
10Yet not altogether with the fornicators of this world, or with the covetous, or extortioners, or with idolaters; for then must ye needs go out of the world.
11But now I have written unto you not to keep company, if any man that is called a brother be a fornicator, or covetous, or an idolator, or a railer, or a drunkard, or an extortioner; with such an one no not to eat.
12For what have I to do to judge them also that are without? do not ye judge them that are within?
13But them that are without God judgeth. Therefore put away from among yourselves that wicked person.
And the result: 2nd Corinthians 2:1-11 1But I determined this with myself, that I would not come again to you in heaviness.
2For if I make you sorry, who is he then that maketh me glad, but the same which is made sorry by me?
3And I wrote this same unto you, lest, when I came, I should have sorrow from them of whom I ought to rejoice; having confidence in you all, that my joy is the joy of you all.
4For out of much affliction and anguish of heart I wrote unto you with many tears; not that ye should be grieved, but that ye might know the love which I have more abundantly unto you.
5But if any have caused grief, he hath not grieved me, but in part: that I may not overcharge you all.
6Sufficient to such a man is this punishment, which was inflicted of many.
7So that contrariwise ye ought rather to forgive him, and comfort him, lest perhaps such a one should be swallowed up with overmuch sorrow.
8Wherefore I beseech you that ye would confirm your love toward him.
9For to this end also did I write, that I might know the proof of you, whether ye be obedient in all things.
10To whom ye forgive any thing, I forgive also: for if I forgave any thing, to whom I forgave it, for your sakes forgave I it in the person of Christ;
11Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices.)
32But when we are judged, we are chastened of the Lord, that we should not be condemned with the world.( And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. John 3:19)
33Wherefore, my brethren, when ye come together to eat, tarry one for another.
34And if any man hunger, let him eat at home; that ye come not together unto condemnation. And the rest will I set in order when I come.
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Revelation 2:18-23 18And unto the angel of the church in Thyatira write; These things saith the Son of God, who hath his eyes like unto a flame of fire, and his feet are like fine brass;
19I know thy works, and charity, and service, and faith, and thy patience, and thy works; and the last to be more than the first.
20Notwithstanding I have a few things against thee, because thou sufferest that woman Jezebel, which calleth herself a prophetess, to teach and to seduce my servants to commit fornication, and to eat things sacrificed unto idols.
21And I gave her space to repent of her fornication; and she repented not.
22Behold, I will cast her into a bed, and them that commit adultery with her into great tribulation, except they repent of their deeds.
23And I (JESUS SPEAKING)WILL KILL HER CHILDREN WITH DEATH; and all the churches shall know that I am he which searcheth the reins and hearts: and I will give unto every one of you according to your works.
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I believe if we will seek Him in RIGHTEOUSNESS He will pour out His Spirit and power. Speaking of fasting, and righteousness, and healing going hand in hand,see
Isaiah 58
1Cry aloud, spare not, lift up thy voice like a trumpet, and shew my people their transgression, and the house of Jacob their sins.
2Yet they seek me daily, and delight to know my ways, as a nation that did righteousness, and forsook not the ordinance of their God: they ask of me the ordinances of justice; they take delight in approaching to God.
3Wherefore have we fasted, say they, and thou seest not? wherefore have we afflicted our soul, and thou takest no knowledge? Behold, in the day of your fast ye find pleasure, and exact all your labours.
4Behold, ye fast for strife and debate, and to smite with the fist of wickedness: ye shall not fast as ye do this day, to make your voice to be heard on high.
5Is it such a fast that I have chosen? a day for a man to afflict his soul? is it to bow down his head as a bulrush, and to spread sackcloth and ashes under him? wilt thou call this a fast, and an acceptable day to the LORD?
6Is not this the fast that I have chosen? to loose the bands of wickedness, to undo the heavy burdens, and to let the oppressed go free, and that ye break every yoke?
7Is it not to deal thy bread to the hungry, and that thou bring the poor that are cast out to thy house? when thou seest the naked, that thou cover him; and that thou hide not thyself from thine own flesh?
8THEN shall thy light break forth as the morning, AND THINE HEALTH SHALL SPRING FORTH SPEEDILY: and thy righteousness shall go before thee; the glory of the LORD shall be thy reward.
9Then shalt thou call, and the LORD shall answer; thou shalt cry, and he shall say, Here I am. If thou take away from the midst of thee the yoke, THE PUTTING FORTH OF THE FINGER,(Matthew 7
1Judge not, that ye be not judged.
2For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.
3And why beholdest thou the mote that is in thy brother’s eye, but considerest not the beam that is in thine own eye?
4Or how wilt thou say to thy brother, Let me pull out the mote out of thine eye; and, behold, a beam is in thine own eye?
5Thou hypocrite, FIRST cast out the beam out of THINE OWN EYE; and THEN shalt thou SEE CLEARLY to cast out the mote out of thy brother’s eye. Galatians 6
1Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.)
and speaking vanity;
10And if thou draw out thy soul to the hungry, and satisfy the afflicted soul; then shall thy light rise in obscurity, and thy darkness be as the noon day:
11And the LORD shall guide thee continually, and satisfy thy soul in drought, and make fat thy bones: and thou shalt be like a watered garden, and like a spring of water, whose waters fail not.
12And they that shall be of thee shall build the old waste places: thou shalt raise up the foundations of many generations; and thou shalt be called, The repairer of the breach, The restorer of paths to dwell in.
13If thou turn away thy foot from the sabbath, from doing thy pleasure on my holy day; and call the sabbath a delight, the holy of the LORD, honourable; and shalt honour him, not doing thine own ways, nor finding thine own pleasure, nor speaking thine own words:
14Then shalt thou delight thyself in the LORD; and I will cause thee to ride upon the high places of the earth, and feed thee with the heritage of Jacob thy father: for the mouth of the LORD hath spoken it. Isaiah 59
1Behold, the LORD’s hand is not shortened, that it cannot save; neither his ear heavy, that it cannot hear:
2But your iniquities have separated between you and your God, and your sins have hid his face from you, that he will not hear. 1st Peter 3:12 For the eyes of the Lord are over the righteous, and his ears are open unto their prayers: but the face of the Lord is against them that do evil.- The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much. (james 5:16b)
——————————————————————————————————– Last but not least, Isaiah 57
1The righteous perisheth, and no man layeth it to heart: and merciful men are taken away, none considering that the righteous is taken away from the evil to come.
2He shall enter into peace: they shall rest in their beds, each one walking in his uprightness. While all the other scriptures (including all discussed before this comment)speak to one degree or another to the situation of my mother, I think this perhaps speaks the most to her case. In any case, I know that “For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.
But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.
When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things.
For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face: now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.
And now abideth faith, hope, charity, these three; but the greatest of these is charity.
Love in Christ, Jonathan
August 9th, 2007 at 4:21 am
I just wanted to thank you guys for posting everything you did. I have had two best friends and many family members die of cancer. The most recent was a very good friend whom I miss very much. It might sound crazy, but after he died, I knew I would raise the dead like Jesus did, so I felt I should start with him. Well, he didn’t come back, obviously- and I was very young at the time and stopped praying for people completely.
About a year ago God drew me in. He has been showing me that there is a serious problem in my walk with Him. For one thing, I should be walking and talking with Him as Adam and Eve did before they fell- and I don’t believe the whole walking and talking thing is simply symbolic either. I believe that out of our relationship people will be healed instantly, along with many other visible ‘fruits’. Is that not how it should be?
Thanks for the encouragement. Keep it up.
October 28th, 2007 at 8:13 pm
I have been listening to some teaching by Henry Wright, of “Be In Health”, who talks about the spiritual issues behind sicknesses and diseases. I believe it is good teaching but I also agree with you. Whether there are other issues causing the sickness or disease, if a person is not healed when we pray for them we have to accept responsibility. We are the witness to the Jesus and we must have the Holy Spirit on us to boldly preach the Gospel and heal the sick. It is our responsibility to pray and ask for the Holy Spirit, then to believe and have faith that Jesus will be true to his word.